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 About Melissa Batai

Melissa is a writer and virtual assistant. She earned her Master’s from Southern Illinois University, and her Bachelor’s in English from the University of Michigan. When she’s not working, you can find her reading a good book, cooking, or traveling. She resides in New York where she loves the natural beauty of the area.

Why We Never Lease Vehicles

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Young Woman standing in the door of a car

My husband and I had two cars—one was a 2004 model with 239,000 miles, and the other was a 2013 model with 107,000 miles. Both have been paid off for years, which is our strategy—buy new, reliable cars and keep them until they die. However, we recently purchased a new 2022 vehicle, and I’m amazed at how technology has improved since I bought my new car in 2004. I love the backup camera and the blind spot detection. Driving a new car for the first time in 18 years, I could understand why people lease vehicles—they get the most recent models with the latest technology. However, despite that perk, the disadvantages of leasing keep us committed to our current car-buying strategy.

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How To Avoid Blowing Savings

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We’ve used You Need a Budget (YNAB) for about ten years. As part of the YNAB system, I have line items for monthly expenses, but I also have sinking funds for annual or semi-annual expenses such as car insurance and property taxes and for irregular expenses such as medical expenses, car and home repairs, and home improvement. Beyond that, we have an emergency fund, but I must take steps to avoid blowing our savings.

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5 Reasons Why Couples Should Book Their Travels with Costco

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Costco is a great store to shop and snag deals from toilet paper to alcohol to everyday groceries. And while you’re there, don’t forget to fill the gas tank. Costco’s gas station regularly sells gas for 15 to 40 cents less than other gas stations in the area. But that’s not the end of the savings Costco offers. Don’t forget to check out their insurance, car-buying assistance, and travel packages. If you don’t know yet, Costco travel for couples is one of the best-kept secrets. Yes, Costco is in the travel business, and booking with them can save you money and land you extra perks.

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The Biggest Mistake We’ve Made in Our Lives

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My husband and I are firmly entrenched in midlife. We’ve been married for over 20 years, and by most accounts, we’re successful. My husband and I have a nice home, two cars, and jobs we enjoy. However, lately, we’ve felt an uneasiness about our lives. We couldn’t place why for a while, but after some reflection, we’ve discovered the biggest mistake we’ve made in our lives.

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Is There Money in Comic Books? Here’s How to Get Started

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What kid didn’t love reading comic books? They’re an integral part of many people’s childhoods, but often, people disregard comics as they grow up. However, you don’t have to. For some, comics make a valuable collection. Even better, there’s good money in comic books, especially if you know what to look for. As you get older, you may find your hobby shifts from reading comic books to collecting them.

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Should Couples Sign Up for Life Insurance Even if They Have Plans on Migrating?

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Life insurance is essential, even if you don’t have kids. If you’re married or have a significant other, your life insurance policy can pay for your funeral expenses and assist your loved one left behind with daily expenses. In addition, the policy payout can help replace a portion of the income you would have made over several decades if you had lived. While you may know life insurance is essential, you may wonder if it’s worthwhile if you don’t plan on living in the United States in the future. Should you still buy life insurance before migrating to another country?

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What To Do When Your Spouse Pawned Jewelry Behind Your Back

Spouse Pawned Jewelry Behind Your Back

Spouse Pawned Jewelry Behind Your Back

Most marriages involve adults who love and care for one another. However, that dynamic can sometimes skew, especially if one spouse is dealing with an addiction or is abusive. If you’re married to someone like that, you may feel like you’re living with someone you must protect yourself from.

Unfortunately, if you live with someone with an addiction, you may find your spouse pawned jewelry behind your back, used your credit cards without permission, or stole your identity. If any of these events occur, you have several decisions to make.

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